Midlife just got a whole lot hotter! Explore Karen's holiday guide featuring pleasure-boosting sex, wellness and intimacy products.

Let’s be honest — “not in the mood” has become the most overused phrase in midlife bedrooms. And it’s not because anyone’s broken, lazy, or uninterested in sex. It’s because the rules of desire change, and nobody gave us the updated playbook. Desire in your 40s, 50s, and beyond doesn’t just arrive on command. It needs time, curiosity, and safety — not pressure, performance, or “just do it.” On the bright side, you can absolutely get your groove back. You just need to start sm

When most people talk about boosting productivity, they mention coffee, exercise, or meditation. But according to a fascinating new ZipHealth study, there might be another underrated way to supercharge your day — morning sex. The survey of 1,000 full-time American workers found that intimacy before work was linked with better focus, higher motivation, and even career advancement. But here’s the kicker: Gen X and baby boomers — people in midlife — were the most likely group to

When people talk about getting older, they usually talk about what we lose—collagen, hormones, energy, hair. The one thing that gets better with age is your potential for great sex. You’ve got experience, emotional intelligence, and (hopefully) a little more time on your hands. What you might not have is the same old body—or the same ideas about what sex should be. And that’s exactly where the fun begins. Redefine What “Great Sex” Means Great sex in your 50s (and beyond) isn’

We’ve been sold a lie about what it means to be a “strong man.” It’s not about power or performance—it’s about presence, empathy, and emotional depth.   If you’re a man in midlife, chances are you’ve mastered a lot of things: your career, your responsibilities, maybe even your golf swing. There’s one skill most men were never taught—how to communicate emotionally. When it comes to love, sex, and connection, that’s the game-changer. No matter how fit, smart, or successful you

Let’s be honest — few phrases bring up more guilt and confusion than this one. You love your partner. You share a life, memories, maybe a...

Wish you could keep the passion going just a little bit longer? Sexual stamina isn’t just about “lasting longer” — it’s about maximizing...

Let’s be real — butt stuff or anal sex is one of the most common fantasies guys have. Plenty of men want to try it, some women are curious, but when it comes time to actually do it? That’s when things get complicated.   For many women, the thought of anal play comes with a wave of anxiety:   Will this hurt? Will I like it? What if something embarrassing happens?   All normal questions. Butt play is intimate, vulnerable, and yes — it can get a little messy. But here’s the good

You know what kills the mood faster than socks in bed? Asking, “ So… what do you want me to do ?” 😬 Every woman’s body is different, and...

Does penis size really matter? Penis size might be the most searched question in the history of Google — right up there with “how to last...

Dating in midlife comes with its unique set of challenges and opportunities. If you're navigating the complex landscape of relationships...

Sex after divorce The joys of sex without worrying about getting pregnant is a welcome consequence of menopause. No more birth control...

Orgasms, often the climax of sexual pleasure, have puzzled and intrigued humans for centuries. What really happens in our bodies during...

Menopause can herald a period of physical, emotional, and sexual challenges. Instead of a time of loss, menopause can be a time of...

Just as women experience menopause, men undergo a less discussed but significant change: andropause. This phase marks a gradual decline...

In today’s dating world, where swiping left or right could determine our romantic fate, diving into the dating scene can feel more...

Your version of a monogamous relationship is veiled in layers of expectations and past experiences. Most couples don't explicitly state...

In a world where the daily grind often leaves us drained, the intimacy that once burned bright in our relationships can slowly dim,...

It took me 60 years to find my true calling. I hesitate to call it a “passion,” as that might diminish my earlier career as a...

Mismatched libido is the number one reason couples seek out help from sex therapists. This common challenge can cause emotional...