How to Please a Woman Without Killing the Mood (Use the Remote Control Trick)

You know what kills the mood faster than socks in bed? Asking, “So… what do you want me to do?” 😬

Every woman’s body is different, and what worked with your last partner might be a total miss with your current one. That’s not a bad thing — it’s the fun part. Sex should feel like exploration, not guesswork. Asking her to stop and explain what she wants? That yanks her right out of the moment and into her head — exactly where you don’t want her.

If you really want to please a woman, here’s the move: hand her the remote control. I know, that's your turf. You need to be in charge right? Trust me, you will be, just cede a little and see what happens.

Imagine you’re flipping through channels — you’re trying to find the one she really wants to watch. Instead of asking her to describe the whole plot, you just… click.

Try one thing and say, “Like this?”

Switch to something else: “…or this?”

Her body will give you the answer instantly — a breathy “yes,” a moan, hips grinding closer. And just like that, you’ve landed on her favorite channel.

Keep her in the show, not in her head!

When she’s turned on, she’s tuned in to her body. You want to keep her there — not interrupt the episode with a Q&A session.

This trick works with:

Pressure: “Softer… or harder?”

Speed: “Slower… or faster?”

Technique: “Here… or there?”

Positions: “Stay here… or flip over?”

You’re just giving her an easy “next channel” button, and she gets to guide you without breaking the mood.

Why This Works (Especially After 50)

Bodies change. Hormones shift. Sensation isn’t always the same from day to day. The remote control trick is perfect for sex after 50 because it keeps communication hot, playful, and non-awkward. You’re not asking her to teach a class. You’re inviting her to play.

And when she feels safe, seen, and fully turned on, you get way better sex — for both of you.

Next time things get heated, think of yourself as the guy holding the remote. Click, pause, adjust until she’s right where she wants to be — then stay on that channel until she can’t take it anymore. Because better sex isn’t about having all the answers,

it’s about staying curious, staying tuned in, and letting her body tell you when you’ve hit the jackpot.