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The Confidence Myth: Why Real Strength in Men Is Emotional Vulnerability
We’ve been sold a lie about what it means to be a “strong man.” It’s not about power or performance—it’s about presence, empathy, and emotional depth. If you’re a man in midlife, chances are you’ve mastered a lot of things: your career, your responsibilities, maybe even your golf swing. There’s one skill most men were never taught—how to communicate emotionally. When it comes to love, sex, and connection, that’s the game-changer. No matter how fit, smart, or successful you

Karen Bigman
Oct 162 min read


last longer in bed:The Male Playbook for Better Performance, More Control, and Hotter Sex
Wish you could keep the passion going just a little bit longer? Sexual stamina isn’t just about “lasting longer” — it’s about maximizing pleasure, boosting confidence, and staying in control of your body. The good news? You can train to improve your sexual performance the same way you train for strength or endurance at the gym. Let’s explore proven strategies to help you last longer, stay connected, and enjoy sex more than ever. If you’ve ever asked yourself how to last lon

Karen Bigman
Oct 12 min read


Penis size anxiety: how to ditch the ruler & have better sex
Does penis size really matter? Penis size might be the most searched question in the history of Google — right up there with “how to last longer in bed” and “why is my cat staring at me?” Men worry about it, women gossip about it, porn blows it out of proportion (literally), and locker rooms? Well, those comparisons are about as reliable as a politician’s promise. Let’s finally separate fact from fiction and answer the big question: does size actually matter? The Truth About

Karen Bigman
Sep 112 min read


Male Menopause? Decoding the Myths of Andropause
Just as women experience menopause, men undergo a less discussed but significant change: andropause. This phase marks a gradual decline in testosterone levels, potentially reshaping one's sexual health landscape. Unlike the sudden changes that can accompany menopause, andropause creeps in, subtly altering the fabric of men’s vitality, mood, and, crucially, sexual function. Recognizing this shift is the first step toward addressing the sexual health challenges it can introduce

Karen Bigman
Nov 25, 20242 min read


The Sexy Side of Male Vulnerability: Why Emotional Honesty is the Ultimate Turn-On
In a world where men are often expected to be the unwavering pillars of strength, the art of vulnerability is frequently overlooked. As we delve into the intricate dance of human connection, it becomes evident that male vulnerability is not just attractive—it's downright sexy. Conversations around the patriarchy and the suppression of women’s voices have been loud and long. It's equally important to focus on how men are socialized—the relentless pressure to "man up" and conc

Karen Bigman
Sep 20, 20242 min read


Understanding and Navigating Mismatched Libidos in Midlife Relationships
Navigating the landscape of midlife relationships can often feel like decoding a complex puzzle, especially when it comes to the intricacies of sexual desire or the lack thereof. Mismatched libidos between partners is a common phenomenon that, while challenging, is not insurmountable. Let’s unravel this delicate subject together, ensuring you and your partner find common ground and deeper intimacy, regardless of the hurdles. The Diverse Spectrum of Desire When discussing mism

Karen Bigman
Mar 25, 20243 min read


Embracing the Change: The Vital Role of Sexual Wellness in Midlife
The whisper of change is often met with a mix of anticipation and apprehension, especially when it comes to our bodies and our bedrooms as we age. Imagine a world where we talk about sex and sexual health as openly as we chat about our weekend plans. Quite a thought, isn't it? It's high time we acknowledge that sexual wellness is not just a small, tucked-away part of our overall health but a vibrant, essential aspect of our well-being. Studies show that healthier people have

Karen Bigman
Mar 18, 20243 min read
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