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Why You’re Not Attracted to Your Partner Anymore (and How to Fix It Before You Cheat)
Let’s be honest — few phrases bring up more guilt and confusion than this one. You love your partner. You share a life, memories, maybe a home, maybe kids. But the spark? The butterflies? The heat that once made you count the hours until you’d see them again? Gone. And you hate that it’s gone. Because you’re not a cheater. You’re a good person who values commitment. Lately, you’ve been feeling things — noticing others, daydreaming, wondering if you’ll ever feel that pull agai

Karen Bigman
Oct 73 min read
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Butt Stuff Basics: 4 Steps to Safe, Sexy Anal Play She’ll Love
Let’s be real — butt stuff or anal sex is one of the most common fantasies guys have. Plenty of men want to try it, some women are curious, but when it comes time to actually do it? That’s when things get complicated.  For many women, the thought of anal play comes with a wave of anxiety:  Will this hurt? Will I like it? What if something embarrassing happens?  All normal questions. Butt play is intimate, vulnerable, and yes — it can get a little messy. But here’s the good

Karen Bigman
Sep 272 min read
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Orgasms Unveiled
Orgasms, often the climax of sexual pleasure, have puzzled and intrigued humans for centuries. What really happens in our bodies during an orgasm? For both men and women, this peak of pleasure involves a complex ballet of hormonal, neurological, and physiological processes . It's not just about the momentary bliss, but the cascade of effects it has on our health and relationships, especially during midlife when our bodies start to write a new narrative. During an orgasm, our

Karen Bigman
Dec 31, 20242 min read
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Here's the Dirty Little Secret That Could Transform Your Sex Life
Forget everything you think you know about sex after a certain age. Get ready to discover how exploring kink can take your intimacy to places you never thought possible. What if you could unlock a world of untapped desire, where intimacy and connection reach exhilarating new heights? It’s time to talk about something that might just transform your love life forever: kink . Forget the stereotypes—kink isn’t just about leather, latex, and extreme role-play (though it can be!).

Karen Bigman
Oct 8, 20242 min read
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The Myth of Midlife Sexual Decline: A New Perspective on Desire and Pleasure
In midlife, we often stumble upon a myth that's as persistent as it is misleading—the idea that sexuality dims and diminishes as we advance in age. Yet, the reality, rich in its hues and textures, tells a different story. It speaks of adaptation, exploration, and, most importantly, of unapologetic continuance. Sex doesn't have to end as you age;  indeed, aging bodies can still revel in, and deeply enjoy, the pleasures of sexuality. For many of us, the notion that our bodies m

Karen Bigman
Aug 28, 20242 min read
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Solo Sessions: Embracing the Art of Personal Pleasure
In the realm of pleasure and intimacy, there's one activity that, despite its immense benefits, often gets whispered about or, worse, mired in taboo: solo self-pleasure, or masturbation. Whether it's due to societal shame or personal discomfort, many of us shy away from discussing this natural act, especially as we age. Embracing and enjoying self-pleasure has been shown to offer numerous health and well-being benefits. From techniques to enhance pleasure for women and men to

Karen Bigman
Jul 8, 20242 min read
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Elevate Your Intimacy 🫦 (resources included!)
The midlife years offer a unique opportunity for sexual rediscovery and intimacy enhancement, far beyond the realms of conventional wisdom. Whether you're navigating the waves of menopause or the ever-evolving landscape of intimate relationships, embracing new elements within your sexual journey can transform your experience, fostering a deeper connection with yourself and your partner. From the allure of ethical porn to the exploration of vibrators, dildos, and even the play

Karen Bigman
Jun 21, 20243 min read
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Let's Talk About SEX!
If there's one truth universally acknowledged but seldom spoken aloud, it's that sex plays a uniquely complex role in our lives. For many, the term evokes a spectrum of reactions—shame, curiosity, excitement, or even indifference. Yet, despite the myriad emotions it stirs, the discussion around sex, often feels like navigating a minefield blindfolded. In a world where the dialogue around sex is shrouded in whispers and giggles, it becomes crucial to tear down these barriers—

Karen Bigman
May 28, 20243 min read
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