Meet the Woman Behind Taboo to Truth
Shifting the Story About Midlife Sex
I didn’t set out to become a midlife sex and relationship expert.
Like many women, I built a full life—family, responsibility, momentum—and assumed that changes in intimacy were just part of getting older. Sex wasn’t something we talked about. When it shifted or faded, it happened quietly.
Then midlife arrived.
My body felt different. Desire felt different. My emotional needs changed. And I realized how little language I had to talk about any of it—with a partner, a doctor, or even myself. I wondered if something was wrong with me.
There wasn’t.
My Mission
To make sure you have great sex for the rest of your life!
What became clear—through my own experience and countless conversations with men and women over 50—was that most struggles around sex, desire, and relationships in midlife come down to misunderstanding. Menopause and andropause bring real biological changes. Long-term relationships and new relationships add emotional complexity. But no one teaches us how to talk about it.
So people guess. They blame themselves. They blame their partners. Or they stop talking altogether.
That silence—not aging—is what breaks connection.
I became a Sexua Health Alliance Certified Sexuality Educator and menopause coach to help translate what’s actually happening—physically, emotionally, and hormonally—into language people can use. My focus is on education that makes midlife sexuality, intimacy, and communication clearer, more honest, and far less shame-filled.
I believe deeply connected, joyful sex isn’t just for the young and flexible.
Midlife is where intimacy can become more intentional, more satisfying, and more real—when we finally have the right information and permission to talk.
Midlife isn’t the end of great sex.
It’s the beginning of a better conversation.
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