Let’s be honest — few phrases bring up more guilt and confusion than this one. You love your partner. You share a life, memories, maybe a home, maybe kids. But the spark? The butterflies? The heat that once made you count the hours until you’d see them again? Gone. And you hate that it’s gone. Because you’re not a cheater. You’re a good person who values commitment. Lately, you’ve been feeling things — noticing others, daydreaming, wondering if you’ll ever feel that pull agai