Sex Toys for Women Over 50: My Honest Review of Oboo.love's Groove, Ooh, and Moon
If you've spent any time with me here at Taboo to Truth, you know how much I talk about the ways our bodies and our relationships change after 50, and today I want to get wonderfully practical with you. In my latest video I review three sex toys from Oboo.love, a company that designs vibrators and pleasure products specifically for midlife bodies, including women moving through menopause and beyond, and I'm sharing the highlights here so you can read, compare, and decide what feels right for you.
What drew me to Oboo is that their philosophy mirrors my own: pleasure is something we get to keep, grow, and rediscover for as long as we're here. Their toys are thoughtfully designed, beautifully packaged, and playfully named, and each one arrives in a soft little pouch with its own cheeky saying, which makes them lovely gifts. So if you're a man reading this and you'd like to surprise your partner with something that feels inviting rather than intimidating, you're in exactly the right place.
A quick note on transparency: Oboo.love sent me these products to review, and I earn a small commission when you shop through my code. I only share products I've personally tried and would recommend to the people I work with.
At a Glance: Which Oboo.love Toy Is Right for You?
Toy (Use code TRUTH15 for 15% off) | Type | Best for | Key features |
Dual-action rabbit vibrator | Blended internal and external stimulation | Two independent motors, flexible neck, body-safe silicone, waterproof, USB rechargeable | |
Palm-sized clitoral vibrator | Strong, quiet clitoral stimulation, solo or with a partner | Soft and flexible, discreet size, strong vibration even on the lowest setting | |
Three-piece anal training kit | Beginners of any gender curious about anal play | Graduated sizes, flared bases, body-safe silicone, added vibration |
The Groove Review: A Dual-Action Rabbit Vibrator for Midlife Women
The Groove is the toy I recommend for women over 50 who want internal and external stimulation at the same time. The Groove arrives in a pretty pink pouch that reads "What a night," and it lives up to the promise. It's a dual-action rabbit vibrator with two independent motors, one in the longer internal shaft and one in the external curve that rests against the clitoris, so you can run them together or one at a time depending on what your body is asking for that day.
The neck is flexible, which means you can angle it exactly where it feels good, and the whole toy is made of soft, body-safe silicone that's waterproof and USB rechargeable. As someone who lives with arthritis in my hands, I find many toys uncomfortable to hold for long, and the Groove fits beautifully in my hand as well as in my body.
This is a wonderful choice for women in midlife who want blended stimulation and the freedom to warm up gradually. The vibration is smooth and noticeably strong even on the lowest setting, you can increase the intensity as arousal builds, and it's quiet enough that it won't announce itself to the rest of the house. You can use it three ways:
External only, holding the curve against your body for clitoral stimulation
Internal and external together, for full blended sensation
Internal with only the external motor running, if you like the fullness of insertion paired with focused clitoral vibration
The Ooh Review: A Quiet, Palm-Sized Clitoral Vibrator With Strong Vibration
The Ooh is the best small vibrator I've tried for a midlife body, because it pairs a quiet, palm-sized design with vibration strong enough for women who need more stimulation after menopause. I love all three of these toys, and the Ooh is my personal favorite. Its pouch reads "Abracadabra, I want to reach out and grab you," which makes me smile every time I pick it up.
The Ooh is a palm-sized clitoral vibrator that feels soft, flexible, and almost cushiony in the hand. As we get older and move through menopause, many of us need stronger vibration to reach the same level of arousal, and I've found that most small vibrators simply don't deliver enough intensity for me. The Ooh is the happy exception, since even its lowest setting offers an impressive amount of vibration while staying remarkably quiet.
Because it's so compact and discreet, it slips easily into a purse or a nightstand drawer, and it's also a lovely addition to partnered sex. Its soft, pliable body can rest comfortably between you and your partner while you're making love, adding clitoral stimulation without getting in anyone's way. It has become one of the very few small vibrators I've been reaching for lately, and I think many of you will feel the same.
The Moon Review: A Beginner Anal Training Kit for Men and Women
The Moon is a gentle, step-by-step way for beginners of any gender to explore anal play safely. The Moon is a completely different style of toy, and yes, the name is a wink at "mooning." Its pouch reads "Hooked on a feeling," and inside you'll find an anal training kit of three graduated toys made of body-safe silicone. Anal play is for everybody, so this kit works for men and women alike, and truly for anyone with a backside who feels curious.
Every toy in the set has a flared base, which is the single most important safety feature of any anal toy, since it keeps the toy from slipping all the way in and getting stuck. The kit also offers vibration you can add for more stimulation, which can make the experience deeply pleasurable for people of every gender.
How to Use an Anal Training Kit Safely
If anal play is new to you and you feel a little nervous, the Moon is a gentle and very approachable way to begin, especially when you follow a few guidelines:
Start with the smallest size. You might insert only the tip at first, then a little more, allowing your body to relax and adjust at its own pace.
Use lots and lots of lube. The anus doesn't produce its own lubrication, so generous lube is essential every single time.
Choose a water-based lube for silicone toys. Silicone lube can break down the surface of silicone toys over time, leaving tiny pores where bacteria can collect, which matters even more with anal play. If you prefer silicone lube, slip a condom over the toy first.
Size up gradually. As your body grows comfortable, move to the medium toy and eventually the largest, which for many women comes closer to the size of a penis if anal sex is something you'd like to explore.
Stop whenever something hurts. Discomfort is your body asking you to slow down, add more lube, or return to a smaller size.
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Frequently Asked Questions About Sex Toys After 50
Which Oboo.love toy is best for a woman in midlife who's new to vibrators?
The Ooh is a wonderful starting point because it's small, soft, quiet, and still powerful enough for bodies that need more stimulation after 50. If you'd like both internal and external sensation, the Groove gives you that flexibility with two independent motors.
Are these toys easy to hold with arthritis or hand pain?
The Groove's soft, flexible body fits comfortably in my arthritic hands, and the palm-sized Ooh requires very little grip at all.
Can men use the Moon anal training kit?
Yes, the Moon is designed for any gender, and its graduated sizes, flared bases, and optional vibration make it a comfortable introduction to anal play for men and women alike.
What kind of lube should I use with silicone toys?
A water-based lube is your best choice, since silicone lube can degrade silicone toys over time. If you love silicone lube, cover the toy with a condom first.
Do these toys make a good gift for a partner?
They make lovely gifts, especially for men who want to bring something new into the bedroom with a present that feels playful and inviting.
What should I look for in a sex toy after menopause?
Look for body-safe silicone, vibration strong enough for a midlife body, and a shape that's comfortable to hold, especially if you live with arthritis or hand pain. Pair any toy with plenty of lube, since vaginal dryness is common after menopause.
Are Oboo.love toys body safe?
All Oboo toys are made of body-safe silicone.
Where to Buy Oboo.love Toys: Love It Guarantee and Discount Code TRUTH15
Oboo backs every product with their Love It Guarantee, so if something doesn't work for your body, they'll make it right, which takes a lot of the worry out of trying something new. You can find all three toys at Oboo.love, and when you use code TRUTH15 at checkout, you'll receive 15% off your order.
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